1. Soak a small, lemon-sized tamarind in warm water for about 10 minutes. Extract the juice and discard the pulp.2. Wash the ladies finger in water and pat them dry with a kitchen towel. 3. Discard the ends and chop them into bite-sized pieces.4. Heat 1 tablespoon of oil in a pan.5.Add the chopped ladies finger and sauté them until they are no longer slimy. Set them aside.6. In a pan , heat 1 tablespoon of oil and add shallots and saute it until it turns golden brown7. Add chopped tomatoes, coriander seeds and sauté them until the tomatoes turn mushy.8. Allow this tomato shallot mixture to cool down completely.9.Once the mixture is cooled, grind them into a fine paste in a mixer grinder or blender.10. Heat one tablespoon of oil in a pan. Add the mustard seeds and allow them to splutter.11. Add urad dal , fenugreek seeds, asafoetida, and a spring of curry leaves12. Add the shallot tomato paste , ¼ tsp of turmeric powder, tamarind extract, required amount of water, and salt. Mix it well.13. Add the sautéed ladies finger pieces to this curry.14. Add 2 tablespoons of sambar powder to this and allow the curry to boil.15. Once the curry starts boiling, simmer it for 10 minutes so that the ladies finger pieces are tender and cooked and the flavours are well absorbed.16. Switch off the stove. Now the spicy and tangy Vendakkai puli kulambu is ready to serve.Serve it along with steamed rice and papad(appalam).